Solutions to Bullying #2

     Even though bullying will not go away, there are a couple of solutions on how people can stand up to themselves over bullying with out thinking about. The first is simply build confidence on yourself. Having confidence makes you more aware of your surroundings and also make you less afraid of things including getting hurt. The last thing you want to do or should not is chicken out and do nothing. if you want to stand up to the bully, do with confidence. The next reason and it is the most obvious is to not think about bullying or even mention the word bully. The real reason why people are afraid of them or talk about it is because they think too much about it all the time. Bully right now is getting old and boring, why should you spend a lot of time thinking about it? It is not relevant to people's live anymore. If you think about it, then yes, you might be might be afraid of other things. But do not live in fear of that word or idea about it, it is just your thoughts that is playing tricks on you. Let them out, it will be better in the long run. How ever you get bullied and have no idea what to do, learn self defense. Focus your your mind in say that "I am going to do this." that way you will be prepared and the bully has no idea that you have training. However, you can only use it to escape, not fight. You should only use it so the bully is afraid of you and not the other way around. And remember the confidence part where you should stand out.  You do not want to be panicking when dealing in this situation. all of these reasons will help you in the long run.